so...has anyone checked out the video on youtube about J...titled "Blue October for my brother"??

I think River's death defined Joaquin's career as an actor very much. After what happened to his brother he must have made a really big point of keeping his life private, separate from his job, and not taking the press seriously. I saw several of the interviews that River gave towards the end of his life. He took the press very seriously and he was struggling to be authentic, to be himself and to express his values. In a way I felt like Hollywood stole his soul. He was so pure and it felt like they were feeding off of him. I understand Joaquin and his family paid too high of a price, loosing him. It is remarkable the way JP moved on and is not angry at the industry for affecting his brother in such a negative way. River wasn't ready to take it all. They made him feel invincible, but he wasn't.